Why Women Wait to Talk About Rape: We Should Have Higher Standards for a Supreme Court Appointment
My friends list is shrinking today. One of the first casualties was someone I became friends with in the work I do in the addiction awareness community. He posted that "all of these women coming out of the woodwork 30 years down the road to ruin a man's career is bullshit!" I have to say, many of the women we both know who have have addiction issues jumped right on him. Some told him their rape or sexual harassment was what directly led to their addiction issues and dealing with it is part of their recovery. Some stated they did tell, and the way they were treated by family, friends, and law enforcement afterwards was a factor in their substance abuse. 30 years ago the world was a different environment. I can remember at 18 having a man rub up against me in the crowded subway car when I was going to training for my new job and being frozen in fear. I said something to one of the women at the training and she brushed it off with "that stuff hap...